Friday, November 29, 2013

People Matters

Every one of us have a strong attachment to one or more words/term/phrases irrespective of Languages. As Language is just a way to communicate emotions. These words change from Person to person, region to region and time to time.
“Thank you, Please Hello, You are Welcome, Have a Good Day, Dude, Whatzup, Hmm, Simple Nodding, OK, Yes, No, Awesome, lol, sir, ma’am ,boss , ..."

In the later part of my final engineering, when we were having our farewell time. I was in love with the word “PEOPLE”. I don’t know the exact reason but I was so passionate that I even tried to write a book “People Matters”. I was not dedicated enough to bring a logical closure to the same, that too in College days when we have the hell lot of time.
People is a very simple term which means Human beings. You might be thinking why it should be even a subject to think upon. As a listener/reader subconsciously we are looking for answer of one Prominent question (WIFM).  “What’s in it for ME?”

Once Jim Rohn said “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with”.

Now you must be thinking of people with whom you spend time. Hey let’s not use our Math’s average concept to get a picture of ourselves ;) 

It’s interesting and if we think for some time it’s true to some extent. As a human being we learn from our Environment consciously or subconsciously. Inputs are being given to our brain each and every second by our five senses. People and their energy creates the environment.

Each one of us is responsible for the kind of environment we are living in! If you are happy and enjoying your life don’t forget to say Thank You to people around you. If something is bothering you for some time and you are not comfortable in your day to day activities. It’s high time for self-introspection and see if you can act to change the self and energy of the environment in which you spend your time.

As we have all the right to be happy and enjoy our life. Don’t think much Just act because those who matter will love the change and help you in the same, and those who mind should not matter.

I was always curious how each one of us have different opinion on different aspect of the life. Each one of us are different and it is justified to have different opinion or thoughts.

When it comes to People, They are not always good or bad! It's the relationship or energy which flows between two entities which is good or bad. Good or bad is the wrong words to choose while talking about people. Like and dislike seems appropriate to some extent.

We love to be in the company of few because we are happy and comfortable in the environment which gets created when we spend time with our loved ones.

As per common saying “Birds of a feather flock together” We human beings have grown as a society and achieved great heights when people joined hands together for a common cause.

Some of you might be thinking of the concept of “Complement Each Other”. Yes you are very true there can be cases where you are two totally different personalities with opposite thoughts but you guys are the best buddies. Because it’s energy which flows between you matters. There will be differences in thoughts at a high level, but when it comes to basics or purpose you’ll be amazed to see they will join at some points. If both of you and understand respect each other differences There will be an awesome flow of energy, which will leads to more happiness.

Let’s celebrate the benign presence of Awesome People around us and Help each other in achieving our self-Goals and break our limits every day.

Let’s take charge of our own Happiness and promise ourselves we will do whatever it takes under the sun to Smile Constantly J

Please let me know your views on the importance of People in your Life by comments or inbox me!

3 comments:

  1. Well said, Somewhere I read this interesting quote, “ People are in your life for reasons, and for seasons”. When we think about the people who were present at some point in our life, we can see how their existence influenced our life. There may be times when we took a different road, just because some people advised us or talked about it. It may seem random coincidence at first, but after giving a little thought, we can see the importance of their presence, and how a big part of our life depended on other people.
    But there is another side of this coin too, We also influence people, other person may also feel our presence and could be inspired in a certain way, and so if we are moving ahead with positive attitude, people around us will also be motivated and the environment changes. This can lead to true development of self as well as others. So we should take initiative, help others and in a way we'll be helping ourselves.
    - SS

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  2. People=My Passion!! I have always had this group of close friends who have been like a family to me.
    For me, i would quote Jane Austin, “I have no notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature. My attachments are always excessively strong.” I really wish you loads of happiness in your life Surender! Stay blessed, Stay happy, Always keep smiling :)

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