Thank You AIT

If you are among those who generally wins every match which they play in life.You might be looking for the strong opponent.TIME is the one which will give you a tough fight and obviously One day you will not be in the mood of playing but Time will continue running.Used to hear a lot that Time and Tides never waits.But today I realized that time actually flew like anything.

Right now I am enjoying my stay with my Parents.I am just done with my Computer Engineering from Army Institute of Technology,Pune (AIT).On the first Monday of next Month i.e 2 July 2012, I will be living my Dream by joining Microsoft Corporation -"The Software Heaven" as IT Software Engineer.With God's grace Everything is Perfect People around me are happy and I am also very  much excited to Start a New Life.

It seems that it was just few days back when We joined AIT.But on the time line it is Four years.Time always wins.We entered AIT as school kids and came out as an Engineer.As a school kid we used to keep our self busy with books and sports.School Kid never thinks too much I don't know whether s/he don't wants to or s/he never got  time to ponder over his/her thoughts.If we consider our life a Blank Notebook then During our School time we just fill the introductory part and bind it properly.Half of the notebook is filled by time during our college life.

AIT has empowered us with the Potential with which we can shake the Earth.AIT means friends, batch mates,seniors,juniors,management,hostel,fields and everyone who are directly or indirectly linked to AIT.Our batch 2008-2012 was the most amazing batch of AIT.I know every batch claims to be The Best.We have enough reasons with us to prove our claim.We were a talent hub You name a domain and we have lots of people who have proved their potential in their respective domain.Technical,Sports,Cultural and Innovation was our USP.AIT provided us the opportunities to grow and learn at every step.

The best thing ever happened to me in AIT was my Friends.The kind of emotional bond which is bonding us together is amazing and I know it will last till my last breath.I got a chance to interact and spend time with the finest souls.It's impossible to put the kind of relationship we have with each other in words right now.I Would like to thank my friends for being there and I must tell you Your just benign presence mattered a lot to me.

With time people generally forget things as soon as they left the binding Place.But lets promise that we will keep each other alive in our hearts.It was not a coincidence that we were together We were destined to make an impact in each others life.

I am missing you guys already ;I have to close this here only as it's near to impossible for me to continue.I am afraid that I will not be able to see many faces frequently whom i used to take for guaranteed.

All the Best to All of You I know we will rock this world.Always be in Touch !
As the Director sir says Always remember :

"NAAM,NAMAK,NISSAN"

Thank You AITians ! 

"Badey chete aunde ne yaar anmulle, hawa de bulle

Badey chete aunde ne yaar anmulle, hawa de bulle

Si mauja karde, collegi parde 

Si naal bitaayi, oh umar jawani "

(P.S. Few Clicks just taken before leaving the College i.e. 12 June 2012 )

View From NBH

Final Step

A Call On Sunday

It's been a long time that I haven't written anything.Things have changed a lot.Everyone wants and has the potential to grow and improve themselves.It's good to have a dynamic life.
Some of you must be thinking "Hey there are lots of things which don't change and move." I agree my friend but we can say that "Static things also moves but with velocity Zero :P"
So I am also not in the list of exceptions.Like you guys  I have also evolved.Events like conversion from Intern to Full Time Employee at Microsoft.Due to which I will be living my dream every second from July 2012 after the completion of my Engineering.The best part would be that this time I will not be alone from my college I'll be living the dream with few of my best friends.Visit to Parents place,Tracking to Rajmachi and coming closer to nature in Goa has also helped a lot in learning and evolving.

OK ! To taste the sweetness of life We must have the power to forget the past by keeping the good things in Subconscious mind.

So I'll come to present.Today is Sunday i.e 'Day of Sun' the first day of the week.Everyone has their own definition of Sunday as per their likes.Some loves to play,read,write,jog,introspect themselves,track,watch movies,spend time with loved ones, prepare themselves for the coming days and the list goes on.Again I am also not the exception It's my favorite day also.

On Sunday I have to call little Eleven year old girl from Tarantar,Punjab.I have never been to Tarantar and also no family friend connections.But still I have to talk to her Every Sunday.It's small story I think i should tell you guys.

It was 17 April 2009 ,After giving the Exams of second semester of first year I was going to Ambala Cantt where my dad was posted.With lots of thoughts running in my mind like completion of FE in AIT,complexity of exams,strong urge to meet family I boarded the Jhelum Express at 1720 hours from Pune railway station.

I had one upper berth reserved my favorite berth in train.Quality of your journey also depend on the fellow passengers specially when you have to spend about 30 hours in the train.So after a formal introductory talk with fellow passenger I got to know that It was a Punjabi family whose head was serving in Indian Army and They were going to their native place.A small girl the epitome of purity was busy in playing with his smaller brother who was resting in her mother's lap.The eyes of the nikka sardar clearly depict how happy and satisfied he was resting in the mothers lap The Heaven.I slept that night while thinking Once i was also that small and pure fully unknown whats going in the world.The definition of world has changed from mother's lap to 196 countries in the last 18 years.

Next morning when i was busy reading 'The Kalam Effect by P.M Nair ' on upper berth I felt someone touched my leg,I ignored and got back to reading.But frequency was increasing continuously.So I closed the book to look actually who don't want me to read.No one was there I was surprised.I thought not to lay back and continue reading seating.After few moment a head was coming up slowly.Slowly the picture was clear with naughty smiling face.It was the same small girl who was playing with her brother yesterday.You all know that smiling is infectious ,You catch it like the flu,So when she smiled at me ,I also started smiling.The face disappeared soon and I laid back thinking that she'll not disturb me again.I was right It stopped.

But After almost an hour I got an intuition that someone is also on the berth.I looked up And it was the same small girl.I was surprised again.But this time she stood back smiling.I also closed the book and thought what should I talk with this smiling face.As I was busy in thinking she breaks up the silence "Hello Veera ! How's You ?" Veera is the way how people call Big Brother in Punjabi.
I don't have any real sister so I was little emotional at that particular moment of time by being called  'Veera'.She pinged me again and then I came back from the emotional circle of thoughts.I also responded her with a smile.And then once she started she never stopped She was talking,talking and talking.I was also enjoying her company.I also got a chance to play those funny games which children play.She discussed   about her life and told me what she thinks about the world.World was very beautiful from her eyes.I also have to tell her about myself.She wrote her name 'Sanehveer Kaur' ,phone number,birthday and address in my diary with her curvy writing.And wrote mine details also in her notebook.

She was surprised to know that My B'day was falling on next day i.e 19 April .So she started the discussion about B'Day Celebration and her experiences.She sat beside me for the whole day.In evening she shared a secret with me and asked not to tell it to anyone.And i was like 'OK'.She said that she is not happy on the idea of going to Boarding School and her parents are sending him next month.I tired to convince her that Parents do everything for their kids only.It would be for your better future.But she was not convinced.
Time flew like anything at that moment it was Evening and train was at Agra Cantt Platform no 2.

Sanehveer's parents and I were just having a casual talk.And that Boarding secret came into my mind and I told them Sanehveer is not happy on the idea of boarding school.When her parents were justifying the idea I looked at Sanehveer.She was looking at me as I have done the most heinous crime.She has all the right to behave like that As I have braked the promise which i made to her of not sharing the secret.Hey ! Please don't think that i believe in breaking the promise I am a very good secret keeper.I just thought it would be good for Sanehveer only If her parents come to know how she feel.
She started crying after breaking the friendship with me.I was thinking she is just a child she'll forget after few minutes and everything will be normal.But Sanehveer took it very seriously.She kept on repeating the line
" bad veera ! cutti & Erase my details from your diary " while crying.I felt very bad and but i can't show it like her.She stopped crying but kept her hands on her face so that she don't want to look at my face.I was ruptured emotionally I tried my level best to explain But she was not ready to listen.

I was surprised to see how small girl whom I even don't know much can cause such a pain.I went back to my berth repenting. But Nothing great was ever accomplished without enthusiasm.So i decided to go back again and try.A smiling face has now changed as she has lost everything she had in life.I tired for at least half an hour.Even uncle and aunt were trying but she was not in the mood of changing her mind.At 2200 hrs train arrived in New Delhi.I stepped out and was just watching people moving to their destinations as per their own destiny.I saw chocolates at a shop.I remember Snehveer telling me how much she loves Five stars.I bought five Five stars and started moving toward bogie.In between I realized i should not blackmail Snehveer.I decided not to try chocolates.I started talking to her To my surprise she was talking to me.I was very happy to again get back my small friend.

Journey to Ambala cantt was still 3 hours more.She again started her talks and this time she was warning me that this is the first and the last time she is forgiving me.I smiled and offer her chocolates.That infectious smile was again back on her face.She sat with me for those last three hours and she didn't went to sleep.As nothing is permanent Ambala Cantt arrived at 0200 hrs and that lovely discussion has to be stopped.We parted away with a heavy heart.

My dad was there to receive me and i was at home after few moments.It's good to be with your creator on your birthday.I was happy and  narrated the whole Snehveer incidents to my parents and brother.They were like Relations are made in Heaven.I slept with happy thoughts.

In the morning at 0700hrs a phone call waked me up.You'll not believe who was there on the other side."Happy B'Day Veera ! I am first to call naaa " It was Snehveer voice.

On 30 Jan 2010 I called Snehveer to wish on her Birthday.She has the same voice and accent.I was happy to know that her parents has changed their mind and she was not sent to boarding school.

Everything moved with his own pace.I had to change my cellular service and Snehveer's Dad did the same.We both try to contact but it was always unsuccessful.One odd day on 2 Jan 2012 I got a call from a man who didn't know my name but know few of my details.When I confirmed his details He said "Do you remember Snehveer ?"I was thoughtless and said "Yah I Do".He said "I am her Dad".I was jumping like anything at that moment.Actually once in a process of contacting the girl i had called Her maternal uncle but he didn't understood me.Uncle got the number from that source only.

Anyway I was able to talk to Snehveer who haven't forgot even a single thing of that train journey.She told me that she remember my B'Day and she is very sorry that she was not able to wish me.Later on i got to know from aunt that she used to cry that she has to talk to Veera.


On 30 Jan 2012 I was in Goa.We used to ride a lot in order to visit the peaceful and clear beaches.It was late in the night that day I remember It's Snehveer B'Day today but i can't call her as it's too late thinking she would be sleeping.

I use to think i should call and say sorry But there was fear of facing that little girl So i used to give away the idea.One day i got a call from Snehveer .My heart stopped beating for a moment.I didn't picked the call.After few moments I called her "Veera ! How''s You ?" I wished her and accepted my mistake.She was like "It's Ok".But i promised her to call on every Sunday.

So My friends This is how it all begins.But whenever I talk to my small sister That is one of the finest moment of the week.


LOVE and FEAR are only two root emotions in this world.

Place where Your Ideas Become Reality - Microsoft IT

It's been six weeks that i am working as a Software Development Engineer Intern at MSIT,Hyderabad.
Everything is so awesome here that If i start writing then the post will never end.So I will do the same some other day.

Microsoft have changed me lot in both Personal and Professional domain.
Everyone here specially my Manager Mr. Rohit Sabharwal ,Mentor Mr. Thakur Harsh Raj Singh and Buddy Pallavi Chaurasia mam (AITian) are amazing personality and had ensured that i learn everything in this short tenure of 8 weeks.
OK! Lets keep something for the next discussion :P.

Today i realized one of the biggest change which has occurred in me.I love to explore things and always tried to think of How Information Technology can Help Humans in solving their problem.

Earlier i just used to think and jot down the Ideas.but unfortunately those ideas used to stay in my pad only.

Last night 30 July 11,Saturday i was trying to search something simultaneously on more than one search Engine.It was little uncomfortable to manage both the Windows.
Then I thought why don't built a utility which can help you in dealing with multiple search engine at a single Place.It was a Idea.But now Things have changed.Now i am working for a company whose Vision is quoted in next line.
Microsoft IT - India VISION
"When People are enabled and inspired by innovative IT -anything is possible"

'Anything is Possible' were the words which made me think more and more.
Finally The next day When i woke up It was bright Sunday.The day when people usually make themselves ready for the Upcoming week.I had the same plans.
But the thought- "so will it be also like any other idea Which never turned to product/reality" was hitting me again and again ".

So i was very inspired and motivated to see One of my idea into Reality.Now I am comfortable with MVC 3 Framework and Windows Azure -"Microsoft cloud platform used to build, host and scale web applications through Microsoft data centers ".Credit goes to my manager and mentor who had helped me in learning things in the hard way.

So i moved to Office.On weekends generally The place is empty.You can spot few Interns and full time employees roaming with their families.

I started at 1400 Hrs and My Application was up and running on Windows Azure by 1800Hrs.
It goes by the Tag line."Explore Yourself,As it is Your Birth Right !".

A place where you can search simultaneously on more then one Search Engine and Help you in getting the right Information in less time.

You can find the same on this link http://ssm.cloudapp.net/ .

It is being hosted with my Windows Azure Sandbox account given to me by MS to learn and Explore.
It will be removed as my internship will be over i.e on 12 Aug 2011.But before that you can help yourself using the same.

It's a small thing i Know But the best part was that i was able to solve one of my problem myself using Information Technology.I hope in coming time I Will solve the World toughest Problem too ;).

I guess i should go now and prepare myself for the coming week :P.
Screen Shots of the My First Idea Which moved to Production ;):

Life In The Software Heaven

We all are aware of the fact that both Heaven and Hell are present on the Earth.It's just matter of Perception and your whole life changes.Brain ,More specifically Thoughts has the immense power to change the whole scenario.

O.K Lets come to professionalism,As a Computer Engineer what will you call a heaven ?There can be infinite number of answer to this question.
I will make it simpler for you guys What is Software Heaven ?Is it that difficult to answer.

O.K Lets try to analyze the whole context.We can define Heaven as the perfect place to live and where we believe the our very own creator GOD also lives besides us.Lets try to apply the same definition in Software World.

On April 4, 1975 Mr. Bill Gates and Mr. Paul Allen founded the Microsoft Corporation.This was the time after which Software came into the picture.Prior to the existence of  Microsoft ,Software was just a term which used to go with Hardware.Primarily IBM used to build machines which were operated by the software written by them only.It was Microsoft which was behind the Empowerment of SOFTWARE which ultimately give birth to our branch Computer Engineering.We can say that the Creator of our Domain is Microsoft.
So it goes without saying that Microsoft is The Software Heaven.

I am thankful to GOD that he gave me an opportunity to live in software heaven.

On 20 June 2011,I joined Microsoft as an Intern.To be more specific I became the part of MSIT.Now please don't expect me to define Heaven.As I seriously can't do it.It is so amazing that it can't be put into words.

The best part was the conversion of SSM to t-sumali@microsoft.com my alias here at MSIT.With this alias i can even literally talk to Mr. Bill Gates The Chairman ,Mr. Steve Ballmer The CEO and anyone under the banner of Microsoft.See how amazing and open is the environment here.

It's too much of professionalism now lets talk about generic life.Hyderabad is a good place,Weather is similar to that of Pune if you will exclude the rain part from latter one.Everyday i meet new dynamic best minds here and made new friends too.I am getting the glimpses of life which we have to live after college.

Family and the friends are few things which you seriously miss and Which even can't be compensated by the very best facilities in the world.It's good that i am realizing the importance of Time and People in my life.
Anyways Change is the synonyms of Life.Life is to learn and live.

For this first week i was in the Ready Phase as per my Manager.On Monday he will nail down the details of the real time Project on which i will be working.Quite excited and looking forward for the Problem which i have to solve with the help of Technology.

This was my first Week as the working Professional and there are many more to come.The life is totally different I will say it is opposite of Student life.But This is the life for which we were looking forward Since we started our schooling.

It is most beautiful feeling to be Independent and primarily To See (Hear) Your Parents Smiling And the Next big thing is to know that you are the reason behind that smile.

At last i would like to say Thank You to My Parents,Brother,Teachers,Seniors and Friends for their kind presence in my life and Teaching me Everything.I know it's difficult to repay but I will try my level best.

OK.In the end  would like to say something to Life.

"I am going to smile and make you think I am happy.
I am going to laugh,so you don't see me cry
I am going to let you go in style 
And even if it kills me -I am going to Smile :D :D :D ..."

WoW ! It's Life .

Finally It's All Over and I am a BE :D.

Oh I am really sorry How would you know about things.I am writing after a long time My last one was on 20 November 10.

Today with the End of Software Engineering,The last exam of Third Year Engineering .I SSM hereby declare that I am in BE i.e.Final Year.

You must be thinking so what ?What's there in being a BE.
I know there are lots of BE you'll find in the world.But my friend Being a BE in College like Army Institute of Technology,Pune is all together a different experience.
Just try to ask any Fresher of AIT or Alumni that what is a BE ?
Ok i will try to answer this question in a single word and it is WoW !

But technically it's not over To be actually a BE i.e Bachelor of Engineering One more year to go when i can call myself a BE who will be recognized globally.

Just got few 365 days in my hand and have to do lots of things.As i know these are the only days left with me to work upon myself and make The Pristine Soul a dynamic Soul in the world.

The Third Year (Academic Year 2010-11) was the Greatest Time i ever had in my life.This was the amazing period in which i saw all aspect of the life and Made new friends.
If we go in Chronological order The saga started from being a TechAakriti Secretary and The Founding secretory of the Engineering And Technology Board of Army Institute of Technology.
Leading a dynamite like Volleyball team with an historic win in Aakriti 10 was a great experience.Starting the open Event Like Eureka Cup and Model Making with the Team was the start of new Technical Era in the college.
Clearing Pre-SSB of Indian Army despite making the funny mistake in Interview This is also a very good chapter but i will tell you about this any other day.

The best thing Ever happened to me is MICROSOFT.Faith and Patience again helped me in coming up to the expectation of the recruiters of MSIT.I was the only one who made into the final list from the college.

In second semester mind was preoccupied with the thought of How to improve the Technical environment in the College.Along with my Perfect Team was able to make history through First Successful Intra-College Tech Fest TechAakriti and inter college technical meet Solutions 2011.This was the biggest and most learning chapter of the semester,During which i learn how to start from scratch whether it is a Event,Friendship,Day,Life or a Deal.

Thereafter 'One For All' TE SEM -II Project came into picture and then the list goes like file work,submission,Oral,Practicals and The Exam.


"Give Me Your Heart,
  Give Me Your Soul
Life Saying loud To ME, So I will stop now and there is lot more to come in  Life.

NO LOOP HOLES

It has been a long time I haven't written anything,It doesn't mean that I was not living Life It's just the case that i haven't posted it :P.

Just over with the two practicals and One oral Of Third Year Computer Engineering In Army Institute Of Technology,Pune.I am happy with my performance.I was just wondering Is it our commitment to Things which make them a cake walk Or things are actually Easy And we only make them BIG.Or it's DESTINY which was written 20 years ago And Now I am just following the Protocols and changing it into reality.Then by this theory I am just an Object whose attributes and methods have been defined during design time by the designer (GOD) & I am just calling them at run time.Phew !! Sounds crazy !!! If this is true then why we worry about things If everything is Predefined then I don't see any reason to be worried.Just "CHILL" pet word Of AITians.

What will you call this situation "Preparing 13 practicals out of 14 thoroughly and leaving one on LUCK and getting the same one in Final Prac hmm ".Destiny Or Lack of hard work Or Worst side of Probability? Most of us will say destiny as The person has done hard work (92.8 %) just left 7.2% on luck ,it's just the luck which was not with him.We being normal Human being follow the same strategy "hard work with luck" and most of the time It works also .We get encouraged, we make this our habit.This is the sole reason why Chances of SUCCESS in our life is never 100 %.

This is why we FAIL in life despite putting efforts.It's not due to destiny or your luck.It's due to presence of LOOP HOLES in our SYSTEM .Always remember once told by my teacher "CHAIN IS AS STRONG AS IT'S WEAKEST LINK".So whether it is a LIFE, Program or any system you dealing with Don't leave any LOOP HOLES in it.It doesn't matter How Unique or Creative is your system/life if it is having a back door.As in reality Everything is BINARY 1/0. You FAIL or PASS ,nothing like average/consolation ...ETC.

So if you want Success at any cost Then Just give your 100% put your MIND & SOUL to it.You will definitely get it even Once Albert Ellis quoted
"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You don't blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the President. You realize that you control your own DESTINY."

So we all in our best years of life so we can be CREATOR rather then FOLLOWER.
Everyone can't rule the World but Each & Every Person on this lovely Planet Is RULER of his OWN Destiny.We just have to give a thought and Master this art.Try to think Independently you will feel the Infinite Power residing you ,what you just have to do is put that Energy to constructive work.

So whenever you do any work just give your full mean to say 1000000....% of your mind and soul to it.Strive for Excellence,Don't even leave a 0.001 % on Luck.Ultimately GOD is with all of us Hard work never goes in vain.Have Faith + Patience ,you will achieve whatever you want to.

Sorry For not keeping the words "That my next Post will be on LIFE IS TOUGH" which i made in last post Just waiting for the right Incidents and life teaching experience which life will give to me. :P

SELF INTROSPECTION

"Where were you when I was burned and broken
While the days slipped by from my window watching"

It has been a long time that i have been searching for someone,who can help bring LIFE into me who lives the meaning of the song "Coming Back To Life" by Pink Floyd.Waited for long time in a hope that someone from a big figure (6877000000 -1 ) on this Planet will hear my Voice and will respond.I thought life is taking test of my OPTIMISM and kept on waiting and enjoying the song.

With a deep cut with the stitches on my forehead,Whole body in pain,Banging soul and ignoring the GRAVITY of the situation as Exams & IC are on head and Technical Secretory Of AIT is sitting in unknown state .And calling someone as he consider himself hurt and helpless.
Lost in thoughts and Lost in Time,He is just dying to hear a voice out in SPACE.

But more then 30 hours has been passed but No answer (A BIG NO...),Then I realized It was just a bad excuse for not accepting the facts.And 'SSM' (i.e"Surender Singh Malik" .. ME) is not a looser as looser only give excuses.
So He came up with a fantastic plan that in place of just waiting for a miracle to take place ('As Miracles Are made to take Place') and wasting time .Why not just stand up and seek for a HELP.
He was being proud of himself by giving this PLAN.

He given a thought of going to his CREATORS (Parents) and tell them that " Your Product is in Problem and you should do something to make it right as you know SSM from Inside Out".But fortunately or unfortunately that i don't know but he has read "GARDEN by Deepesh".This step would have solved his problem but He decided to gave up this idea ,As now he is enlightened by "GARDEN" and wanted to Make His Garden beautiful without their help.Which he knew will give an immense pleasure and Satisfaction to His Creators .As they also wanted to be free of restlessness of the greenery of the Garden(life) to which they have given 20 Pristine Year Of 'Their Life'.

Rejecting the previous thought He decided to not to go to others to solve his Problem.He wanted something Of his Own.'FRIENDS' was the word which strikes his Paining Head.He accepted the idea by thinking that FRIENDS are the only ones which he has EARNED by himself and They are his own soul who know SSM a lot after his creators.He was again Proud of himself As he got a Reason To See His "unique DIMPLES :) ".SSM has a circle of friends with Big radii.You name the Place,Alphabet or Skill SET , HE has got BEST one can have in the world.He went to few of them and tried to put the things in front of them.To his surprise He Got a Positive and very caring response from them.All of them tried to help SSM in their own Unique Style and decided to do stuff which can help ME.They all started to solve the UNDEFINED PROBLEM STATEMENT .But still SSM did not get the Solution of his Problem.

This bring him back to the previous state and DIMPLES disappeared.SSM was tired but was dying to Solve the Problem.Was reciting "Where were YOU when I was burned and broken"
But still have no idea of this 'YOU' , still in search,Even the Best Searching Algorithm and search engine is of no use to him.

Pain was winning over him ,He thought of leaving the Whole Idea of Searching "YOU" & let the Pain lift the TITLE and decided to go to sleep and suffer.

As he just moved the mouse across the "TURNED OFF" of XP.He stopped Don't know why but he did.Stared his wallpaper("JH" His Lord Hanuman) for few seconds, "JH" was giving him the answer to his Question,But he Was not able to DECODE it.Ignored it and By Simply smiling on self he TURNED off his PC and ended the one sided conversation with his "JH" in between.

But he was not ready to accept his defeat But he didn't had any other options.

Due to Some PRISTINE SOULS with him ,He analyzed the whole situation with cool mind while looking at his WALL white Board.
Repeating ::
"Where were YOU when I was burned and broken"
He took a heavenly ride through SILENCE
He Knew The moment had ARRIVED
For killing the past and coming back to LIFE

After few minutes He stood up & cried out louder with happiness He got His Answer. Yah he got his Answer, His DIMPLES were back.He won, Satisfaction can be easily seen on face having few stitches.He was full of energy again, ready to face the challenges of LIFE with Confidence and was planning to run again on track of life with the only one thing in mind WINING.

Oh,Sorry forgot to tell the Answer,Actually answer is very simple.One exciting thing about answer is that it was there in QUESTION itself.When SSM was repeating Question again and again He was stopped at "YOU".
"YOU" yah "YOU" was the answer mean to say ME, MYSELF, SSM was the person who can resolve all his problems and was the answer to his Question.

As No one in this world know you better then "YOURSELF" .
Parents & Friends just knew few of your part that's why they were unable to solve SSM problem.You know yourself inside out. Every single THOUGHT , EMOTION and SITUATION under the SUN needs your consent before troubling you.

So just remember everything is in your Hand, it solely depend on you How you want the things in life,Running here and there for solution or Just giving some time for

"SELF INTROSPECTION"

Analyzing the things self solves the problem if not it shows the right path to solve the Problem.
As you only know , What your strength and weakness Is?

Self Introspection has helped SSM A lot Now it's your turn just give a try as it cost nothing and I am Sure that it will help you too as you are also a normal Homo-Sapient Like me :P.

Now I think I should stop & take rest (Pain :P) now will carry on the Topic in next Post.
"LIFE IS TOUGH "That is given now it depend on you how you want to live it By Complaining or taking it as a challenge .There is no secret to life.
You go DOWN ,You LOOSE,You STUMBLE, BUT BUT every time that happens "YOU GET ON YOUR FEET",Get Up as fast as you can.As getting up one more time and giving one more try will lead you to Success as LIFE IS HARD ,REAL HARD ,INCREDIBLE HARD ,IT'S ALL UP TO YOU ....... to be continued in next post :D

I would like to take the occasion Of Release of my first blog to Thank GOD,PARENTS & PRISTINE SOULS (My Friends :D) who helps me Every time.